Accountability deadlines. Trusted people.

Tattle Timer helps adults set commitments, invite trusted Accountabilibuddies, and arm consequences that only activate after consent, verification, and provider enablement.

18+ only US-first phone/SMS/voice V1 No anonymous or prank delivery
Opt-in by design.

Contacts choose whether they want accountability messages and how they can be reached.

Private by default.

Proof media stays private unless a user deliberately shares an approved artifact.

Messages only with consent.

SMS, voice, and email are used only where verified, consented, and enabled.

Tattle Timer
Deadline
May 18, 9:00 PM
Finish the report
Time remaining
2h 47m
Accountabilibuddies
S SamSMS and voice where enabled
A AlexEmail consented
Proof
Private by default
Add proofPhoto, receipt, or note
Trusted Accountabilibuddies

The user invites people they actually know.

Consent first

Contacts choose channels, categories, and preferences.

Verified delivery

Messages are provider-gated and consent-checked.

Support and opt-out

STOP, HELP, Press 9, preferences, and support paths.

How it works

Tattle Timer is built around manual invites and contact control. The ideal outcome is simple: the user does the thing before the timer runs out.

1

Set a commitment

The user names the task, deadline, proof type, and whether it should be Standard or Strict.

2

Invite an Accountabilibuddy

The user manually shares an invite link. Tattle Timer does not cold-text or cold-call contacts.

3

Consent is verified

The contact confirms 18+, enters their own endpoint, verifies it, and chooses preferences.

4

We notify only if needed

If a deadline is missed, delivery is checked against consent, safety, caps, and provider availability.

SMS, voice, and email are gated.

External delivery is supported only where the contact opted in, the channel is verified, provider approval is active, and safety checks allow the message.

SMS

US-first texting with explicit opt-in, message frequency disclosure, HELP, STOP, suppression, and concise one-segment-friendly copy.

Voice

Prerecorded accountability calls where enabled, with caller identity, prerecorded/AI disclosure, opt-out by Press 9, and recording prompts before voice notes.

Email

Email delivery remains consented and verified, with preference links, abuse reporting, and safe wording for private or sensitive commitments.

TattleTimer: Jonathan said he would finish the report by 9 PM. The deadline passed. Reply HELP for help, STOP to opt out.

Proof media stays private by default.

Photos, receipt screenshots, generated call audio, contact recordings, and transcripts are treated as private media. Tattle Timer does not put proof photos in SMS, voice, email, or receipts by default.

Private objects

Media should use private storage, short-lived access, and retention rules instead of permanent public URLs.

Safer sensitive wording

Sensitive commitments use generic wording externally unless the contact explicitly opted into the relevant category and detail level.

No public shaming loop

Shareable artifacts, if enabled, must be user-initiated and sanitized rather than exposing contact data or private proof.

Built for review, then launch.

This public site is structured for App Store, Telnyx/10DLC, and provider review: product explanation, consent model, SMS terms, privacy, support, account deletion, and opt-out paths are all public and inspectable.